Resilience is a great skill to continue to develop as we age. While children are still exploring the many benefits of being confident and self-reliant, they’ll also come into contact with many stressful situations that can dampen their spirits. With the right support and direction from parents they can learn to be more resilient and determined to overcome their problems. Here are some ways you can help your child do just that.
Provide controlled problems for your child to solve
Set up an environment where your child can manage the issues presented to them without much stress. These challenges should be slowly ramped up as they progress, but also should be within reach of their skillset. Be engaged and keen to celebrate your child’s success once they’re solved a problem, and perhaps be ready to give them a reward for their efforts.
Try out lots of different activities
From heading down to the play park to trying out roller blades or teaching your child to learn how to ride a bike. They all help your child learn how to manage their skills and it will give them the chance to work on their self-confidence as well.
The more confident your child is naturally, the greater the chance your child will be able to tackle resilience in a number of different situations. While your child’s school will be the best place for them to develop these skills, many independent and prep schools offer a greater variety of activities for children to explore.
Allow them to be themselves
A child that can’t act in their own way can make things more difficult. It’s why parents should always encourage their children to be themselves and do things for them. This way your child is learning more about themselves, what they’re good at and what they’re not so good at, to help with their confidence-building skills and help the become a resilient child.
If you have any tips on how to raise a resilient child we’d love to hear them
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About Debz Louise
Debz Louise is a UK-based lifestyle expert and the founder of several lifestyle blogs, including Wannabe Princess and Under 5s. Specializing in everything from interior design and home renovation to body-positive fashion and early years development,